Hello to everyone    

I have not written a blog in a long time
as i had some surgery earlier this year
and again just a month ago.

I can report that i am back at work
and back at doing great massages.
I would like to write about why some people come into our lives and have a great impact on it. I have been working with a guy for about eighteen months, I decided from the moment that we met i didnt like him and that we had nothing to talk about and had nothing in common with each other. How wrong was i?

We went to work, did our jobs and thats the way it was for about twelve months.
Then earlier this year we started to chat
went out for coffee with other work mates and I realized that this guy and I did have a bit in common with each other. We chat regulalyand text each other most days, We slowly started to form a freindship. I have found out that this guy has similar hobbies and likes and dislikes, He is shy and kinda likes to be in his own space and comfort zone. I could then see I was looking at a mirror image of myself.

I had judged this person becouse he was diffrentand in reality I was judging myself.
We sometimes see in others what we dont want to see in ourselves and this hasbeen a very big lesson for me. I have also seen the limitations that we place on ourselves and can feel the barriers start to fall. Its ok to have a comfort zone for yourself but its also ok tolet others into your life and your heart and space to see who you really are, only then when you see who you really are, that you can appreciate these people that come into your life.

Thankyou Mr Ben for being a great mate
I do hope that these words help you
on your journey of life......

Until next time
Love and Blessings to all

Dennis